For the Weekend of Friday, February 3, 2012
Aries, over-thinking an obvious problem isn’t going to solve it. In fact, it’s going to confuse you further. Someone may be trying to convince you that you are the problem and it’s not you. Settling the score may not be the best approach because it leaves you open to more game play. But are you playing a game, Aries? Or, are you trying to solve a problem? Say what you have to say and get it over with no matter what it is that you have to say. This will certainly cause the next person to communicate, for better or worse. But what’s worse than sitting on an egg that will never hatch? Exactly.
Contemplate: Just get it out of your system.
Friday, January 20, 2012
Love isn’t always easy — especially when we know what we want and need. It’s like going into a shoe store and knowing exactly what kind of shoe you want — you see it in your head — but it doesn’t happen to exist because it’s not been designed yet! The frustration is huge: I’ve been there before (in the shore store, in the clothing store, well in just about every store I already know what I want and nothing else will do!) and the hard part is understanding that just because something — or someone — doesn’t seem to yet exist doesn’t mean that someone that is good for you isn’t around. Perhaps they don’t look exactly what you imagine you’d like. Perhaps they aren’t the same height, shape, or size. But that doesn’t mean you should discount what you see, it just means be more selective. Now, what I just wrote seems to only apply to the single Aries but it does also apply to the partnered and here’s how: you may be with someone you don’t really 100% like at this time. You may wish this person were different or would behave differently around or even toward you. But don’t discount the person you’re with just because you aren’t really “feeling it” at this time. Maybe it will pass, or maybe you do need to realize that you’re not with the person you want and need at this time and need to think carefully about your next move. If you’re married of course this is not just as easy as swapping shoes: if this is the case, you’ll need to communicate your wants and needs to this person or you never will get what you deserve and that’s what you want and need.
Contemplate: You know what you want but if you don’t ask, you won’t get.