Friday, January 20, 2012
Hold it, Leo! You’re making things worse! By thinking of all the drama around you or the challenges you are now facing you are creating more drama and challenges in your own mind. Being single isn’t a sentence but thinking single, drama, problems, worries, stress, strain — you get it — is going to cause you to come across as an angry beast! Not something that can be tamed! Meeting new people may have been difficult due to the challenges you’re facing in other areas of your life or it may have become impossible to: yet another challenge. What single Leos need to do is realize they are coming across rather harshly or they are roaring about issues that do not belong in any (hopefully!) romance related forum. Try to calm down, work your challenges out and please do leave them for business hours, not social time. Committed Leos may find problems surface in relationships. Personal life, business, or work related issues, compound the relationship issues that have potential to become deal breakers. Take some time to realize that you may be trying to control too much rather than allowing the next person to express their concerns. Give the other person a chance to express how they feel — don’t take it personally when they do, just listen — and try to separate your personal frustration from your relationship. You may be thinking this is impossible but that’s what’s wrong with your thinking.
Contemplate: Single Leos need to recognize they can’t roar about their problems or they risk alienating potential relationships. Likewise, committed Leos may find they blur the line between personal challenges and relationships. This could cause a deal breaker to emerge, Leo, calm down, back off, and let your partner express to you what’s on their mind without imposing yours on them.