Libra

Libra

LIBRA 9/23-10/22

Friday, January 20, 2012

You may feel, Libra, that you’re doing something wrong and just can’t get a relationship off the ground. Is is because you are projecting this to every potential partner you meet? You may very well be projecting your insecurity about the future with anyone. Perhaps the insecurity is based on facts, experiences that you’ve collected over time. But what’s that worth, Libra? Your time? Your mind? Both? You are in a phase where even meeting people may wrack you with sensations of fear. Well, it is scary to go about approaching people but it’s more scary, in my opinion, to sit in your house spinning your wheels about something that hasn’t even happened yet and considering you don’t know everyone and you don’t know the future, you’d do well to get over your insecurities about the past and start living in the moment. That requires letting go: of everything. Committed Libras may feel their relationship is going down the tubes. You may even realize that you are to blame for hurting someone else’s feelings all because of the same: your insecurity. Insecurity has a way of playing tricks on the mind and your partner can tell something’s wrong. You then set about hurting someone else so you’re not the only one hurting. Now, is that fair, oh seeker of balance? How can you expect anyone to feel secure around you when you’re projecting this weird vibe based on your insecurity? Perhaps you have real reason to feel insecure but have you expressed how you feel or asked questions of your partner like, “Did I hurt you? I did, didn’t I? How can I help make things better?” You see how easy that was for me to write? Well, it’s not easy for you to admit that you’re wrong and in this case you probably are. What you’re likely wrong about is how the other person is feeling and why. So, do ask the questions I just phrased because before your know it, your fears will become reality and things will only get worse — just when you thought you could just ignore them away.  They could get better but not until you start talking, Libra, and even just say, “I’m sorry, I didn’t really mean to hurt you, but I’m hurting right now.”

Contemplate: If your insecurities are getting the best of you, the next person can see that. If you’re insecure because you’ve hurt someone and fear you’re losing them, start talking before you actually do.