Scorpio

Scorpio

SCORPIO 10/23-11/21

Friday, January 20, 2012

Single Scorpio may be feeling as if they are unfairly treated by the universe. Meeting other people comes easy to you and it could be that you don’t seem to find a person who is a good match for you. But I want you to consider something, little Scorpion, and I know you’ve already been thinking and feeling this for a few days: the universe isn’t treating you unfairly, it’s not just because your standards are very high — that’s not a bad thing, will spare you grief later! — it’s that right now no one is exactly the right match and that’s okay. It’s  just not okay to stick out your lip in a pout lest you send the signal, before you meet someone new, that they don’t fit your exact needs. That’s what friends are for! They are for friending. They are for fun! And it’s okay to not find the right person just yet because the ones that don’t fit the bill will also fill your time. Take heart, Scorpio, it’s better to not just grab what’s on sale because people are really hard to return and they tend to kind of latch on to you! You’re fine, keep friending. Committed Scorpions have likely been dealing with their partners worst behavior and likely have formed an opinion or two while nursing their wounds. That’s not wrong to do, but it is wrong to harbor your hurt inside because you’re likely showing it on the outside already. Clever disguises for your feelings you do have but are they worth the trouble wearing? Revenge is something you’re good at and keep up your sleeve but using it is not the same as thinking it: it’s wrong just like the person who hurt your feelings is. Two wrongs don’t make a right and this is one of those times where the cliche applies. The better thing to do right now is to stay cool, don’t act or react, let your partner think about what they did to hurt you. You’re good at detecting guilt in others anyway so just let this ride a bit.

Contemplate: Wrong is wrong and you know that. But in order to demonstrate to another that you’re ready to listen to their plea means you are not allowed to dish out the punishment or you’re no better than your partner. Singles can take heart that what they are feeling isn’t a bad thing, it’s called being selective and that is very good for you.